I collected this in the comments to this post.
The fact that someone shrouds himself/herself in the Catholic cloak doesn't confer official "good standing" with the Church any more than my proclaiming myself to be a wallaby makes me such. Because an individual voted for Kerry, who claims to be Catholic, doesn't confer immunity to the label of anti-Catholic. Whether you vote for a dissident "Catholic" or not, if you make the claim that an official teaching of Catholic Church is in error, you are anti-Catholic. That contrary opinion defines the term.
Dude. I went to high school with you.
You wanna know a secret?
Even the priest thinks you're a dick.
True story.